Kary Wayne Stokes - Online Memorial Website

"It has been said, tima heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time  the mind protecting its sanity , covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. "   Rose Kennedy 

well kary, today makes two years since you left me,i still remember your beautiful smile and your big beautiful eyes..i still wish that you was here with me but i know you are better off with jesus....that still does not make it any easier. everyday i wake up you are on my mind. i can see your face as if you were still here.you will forever be in my heart ..i love you so much kary,i know that you know how much i love you..

kary i miss you alot me and you was so much alike(ha ha} we still are.you always loved to make me so mad.somehow we always got over it.you and my children were very close, they loved you the way you was.

 i remember the last time i saw you and huged me by,if i would have known it would have been the last time i would see you then i would have never let you go.......

 

people always say it gets better with time...but when?

our lives go on but i never forget and it is so hard. i try not to let people know, but they do.

you was in my dreams last week and you look soooooooo handsome and happy. i know you hear me.. i love you so much.

i understand a little bit why god chose you . you really saved alot of lives..like they always say "there is a reason for everything" and go had a plan for you  and also he says that one day he will explain...

 you will always be with me.....ETERNALLY!!!!!

Hey I just wanted to share a time that i remember you most by. I remember one night i was at Maw Maw's house watching T.V. and you were in your room getting dressed to go out to a club with some of your friends. You looked so cool in your shades. I remember right before you left you winked at me and asked me if i was going to be home when he got back and i said yeah and he said "Well chick i'll see ya when i get home then. I know i havent always been there for ya but I still love you and i'll see ya later."

I'm glad that one of the real good memories i have of you is when you were really happy. I have the newspaper article over my bed. I think i have the whole thing memorized now cause i read it almost everyday. Well I love you uncle Kary and i miss you.

- Brittani

kary i remember when we all where kids.toby,dub and u would always have a peing contest to see who could win. the one who would pee over the gas tank would win.......of course it was always toby. this would make ya'll so mad. you all would try so hard but could never win.....

kary would do anything for anyone.he loved us all so very much.i am really having a hard time dealing with this.i missed him calling me on my birthday "happy birthday sis"  can i borrow 20 dollars....ha ha i would do anything for u to call me now.i know u are with god but it is still hard to deal with ...i need you back kary.

My memories of Kary will always be him coming in from off shores tired and just wanting a family around. Bringing me his bag full of dirty laundry...lol. I loved him. I saw his daddy in his big smile and his mama in his talk and gestures...the two people I love as well. So glad my family and I got a chance to know Kary...and we all loved him. Those will be the good memories we will always keep in our hearts of Kary. I have some photos I want to put on here of Kary and a cool looking car he restored. If time will allow me to hunt them up I will put them on this site. God bless all...I love you my family.

Karen

Son I love you so much and my heart is torn and ripped, places in my thoughts run day and night with you on my mind. It is so hard to beleive this is real. I was so fortunate to be with you and hold you, for the last time. And tell you that I love you so much, and you told me the same. We embraced each other for the last time on this earth. Son I will forever miss you. Dad

i have so many memories.mostly when i needed u you would come.no matter of the time,day or night.me and u are so much alike,dub and toby would always tell us that.all 4 of us really had a good time together.i remember playing cowboys and indians...of course i was always the indian so ya'll could shoot me.i have no regrets with u kary.i just wish u could have lived a longer life.my heart aches every day and ther is nothing i can do about it ...u r in my heart ....eternally.    your lil sis

One of the craziest memories I have of me and Kary was about 12 years ago. It was Friday night and he had came by moms and said "hey bro whatcha doing tonight"?  I told him that I was not going out.  He ask why and I said that I really didn't feel like it.  He said he was dating this hot chick and told me that he could hook me up with the girls momma.  I thought "he's crazy" and said whatever. He said I will be back in about two hours and to be ready.  I didn't bother to get ready because I did't believe him. Well he reappeared in about two hours with the girls momma and she looked pretty good.  This was one of many great memories of Kary.

Kary,

        I will never forget the last time u came down to south fla.    I took you out to roundup and u sat there for hours just amazed...lol   you even called your mom at 2am and you said  "  mama, u wont beleive this place, its something like on TV!!!   I laughed so hard.    Miss u cuz!

 

Angela

The last time I saw Kary was at Po Folk's restaurant several months back. He wanted us to meet him there and eat with him and his girlfriend. He seemed pretty happy and we all had a good time talking. He talked about the things he wanted to do. I felt the burden of God in my heart for him then. He had a good heart and good intentions and a lot of times the things he wanted to do and the plans he made fell through. He did have a trust in God and wanted to live for him but it seemed he just didn't know how. I prayed for him a lot of times and I know that God heard my prayers. I really feel God spoke to his heart the day he was shot and knowing the heart Kary had for God, I believe he listened to God. And knowing the type of heart God has, he didn't let go of Kary either.